Parents Care

Every human beings with their arrival on this earth for the life journey ,our mother is a creator with whose care , feelings, emotion,& love from the good period of time within , foundation of our unknowingly  formation started with our arrival.

Only after our arrival we experiences the feeling of our CASTE,CREED,& RELIGION with the passage of certain period come to know the atmosphere of our family with the system of their living & other traditional system of our life.

 With our arrival our mother pass every care ,love, our feelings ,sentiments ,& she used to remain on her feet while listening any sound of our cry.

This is the training of the mother of our childhood up bringing which plays an important part for our growth ,behavior, discipline  & development of our life . 

Generally father is a major bread earner ,& due to his busy hrs. he may not be  in  the position to find out the time & to observe & view the development of his child.

Due to this with the growing up the development of a child ,the child keep the reservation & remains aloof with the father for coming nearly to him & open his mind freely for the advice & guideline.

 In view of this in such cases the child remain more closer & also to remain attach more with mother .

With this , whatever to be profession or standing of a father & even in his busy hrs. 

He should take all the necessary care & love for his child so that child can become free & more closer & with the passage of time the relation will be that of a Friend, Philosopher,& Guide. 

This will certainly help the progress of his helpline ,career development & also his behavior & action for the social surrounding.

It is not necessary that the child should follow the footstep of his father as he has his own career , his hobbies, his friendly environment & action of his life for the career development .

 The most important is for the grown up the children may be a Son /Daughter & it is at this stage the responsibility ,care taking & the environment in the family come in the light .

It is at this stage that in the western countries with the grown up the Son /Daughter they would like to live independently which may be possible that they may find their own growth ,behavior , character , & progressive path of their study in the line with the independent environment & in the midst of their new companies .

In other part of countries there is probability that due to the financial condition of the parents children may remain with the family & to complete their development .

 After completing the programming part of the children the question of the festival of Joy ,Pleasure, in the family take part due  to the involvement of the marriage ceremony of their children.

This joy & pleasure of family last for certain years of time & it is very natural that Father & Mother both have entered in their Sr living position .

 Not in all the cases but it is the fact rather unfortunate that home for old parents have taken place & seen the day light also where settled children they place their parents in the Old age home house forgetting the sad episode which parents have to pass & also to experience.

It is unfortunate in such cases parent are passing the lonely life in the midst of new companion & children are enjoying full pledged happiness & joy of 21 st century .

 In such cases children should not forget that they are also to become & also to travel in course of time in old age compartment. 

Anyhow it is absolutely essential that parent who have taken all the care, love ,emotion ,feelings ,& in their  disturbing period of illness, or any problem , they have passed a sleepless night .

We all have not to forget that Nature, Creator ,the planetary influence are not to remain the same for every human beings & for our action also , we have to play the necessary penalty either in this life & if we have not experienced ,we have to prepare for our next life.