Marriage-1+1=1

There is a saying that marriages are made in heaven . This shows the reflection of duty & creation for preparing the partner in an joyful & holy environment .

 With this , the said holy word is applicable to the entire world of all the nation with the different culture ,religion , caste, & such other changed identity of the culture of human beings .

The entire world is running due to the organization of Marriage events for every human beings , it is the representation of the woman & man joining the together under the oath & holy ceremony according to the customer under the bond of living together permanently – whole time of life – to prepare & also to make our living life joyfully – physically & mentally to prepare for the worthy cause of human life .

To make & also to prepare for the worthy life for the heavenly grace ,we have to accept it both from the within & outside that our joining is to make our mind & heart only in oneness & such union of mind & heart speaks the same language of mind & also of the heart to make the life of both more healthy & beautify to live . 

The main aim of marriage is to create the fragrance of mutual life .

We know & also have to accept the importance of marriage in our life ,it is not only living together but also to share our common views ,our ideology & in our association under mutual consultation  the life should be prepared both covering the ideas of noble cause of living , to make our thought & thinking part to be more agreeable both to the mind & our divinity join with so that the life can share to justify the heavenly image .

With this only to the humanity & union of mind & heart of both can help the entire world are  going due to the god s’ given gift of progeny to the entire women folk so that the life becomes more joyful to the arrival of baby boy & baby girl & their arrival makes the life very much joyful ,happy , with the hopes of aspiration , growth ,& progress of their new arrival to make the life more joyful & beautify to live .

With all the hopes & aspiration the life is not to be considered as we think & as such we have to agree that the life is not bed of roses .

 In the light we have to under go disturbance  ,mental tension ,worries , frustration ,& very often problems of meeting the both hands meet.

 This are the problem creating the disturbance in married & after wards in the family life .

This is the facts of the life which we have to agree whether we like or otherwise .

In this case mutual chaos between Husband & Wife disturb the entire environment of the family & this give the trouble to the parent of the couple & if they having children it gives much more disturbing problems .

  In the line of our earlier ideology we must accept give & take policy in the interest of our own life ,family & children .

It is the fact rather unfortunate that we all have the negative traits just as  our Pride ,Anger ,Ego, Jealously Attachment & such other related traits are  problem for finding out the solution which couples face & for this mutual understanding & also for establishing a firm faith within each other the problems can be solved comfortably in the mutual interest .

If it is otherwise , they have to take recourse to separation so to say divorce , which we are observing every where in the society & if this be a case , it is nothing but the part of a destiny which we have derived with our action of the earlier previous lives .