Twin Eye of Parents

It is psychology behaviour of the mankind as a whole. As we know our mother is a creator for our entry in this universe for which we all human beings either a male or female have been brought under the loving care of mother & to a mother in love & care they may not be any weight age of their love between the children whether a son or daughter .

The problems come when the children grow up in their respective forum for carrying out the action of their life passage for creating their image, behaviour, in the social forum.

 For a daughter, the entire living pattern in their nature, behaviour code of conduct, understanding, & caring love for the members of the family including parents is totally different in the comparison with their brother.

 This is the said difference which especially father noticed in their life by experiencing loving care of their daughter.

If I touch my personal observation in my life that children especially son after their grown-up age have changed their behaviour with the parents in the sense that quite good suggestion which parents want to pass their children with they have to overlook & carry out their norm in their own manner.

It is the society everywhere in the world irrespective of caste, creed,& religion have their social norms & culture for which especially male members have adopted their own liking.

 We know the marriage system has everywhere in the world are the function of pleasure, joy, & social gathering for the celebration.

 In case of male member daughter of different parents, they come with the establishment of their relationship between a Husband & Wife which the wife from the different family joins with the Husband & his family as a member of her own home.

In this line joy of mother is totally different as the daughter of the different family joins with her family with becomes & overall joy for the mother & it is this speaking that mother so to say ladies desire a son in their life.

For ladies so to say daughters they love & take care of the entire household with the loving care including her entire care for her father in their day to day life.

The behaviour between the Sons & Daughters differ fundamentally with father is observing both with the smiles & unpleasantness between the daughter & son respectively.

Just as the son ,daughter marriage is also a joyful function for the family in case of daughter they have to leave the house of their parents permanently as she is joining with her husband in their house to her it is her totally new environment to adjust in the new house, in the parents & other members of the family of her husband .

 Parent of the daughter have with them the glory & memory of the daughter & with their culture & atmosphere which daughter has received from the parents has made a part of the daughter should be a member of their own family.

Coming to the points of a son they desire to have their independent life for which they wish to live separately from the parents which are in an indirect manner create a sorrow & tears in the parent.

This has become the way of the life in every society.

 Children after separation, in their own life they forget the early feeling for the parents & as such in every society in everywhere in the world there is an old age house for the parents whose son have either not taken care or in certain case total neglected their parents.

For daughters, it has observed that whatever the marriage life they take all the time loving care of parents & in case of need daughters run immediately to their parents for their loving care & all the necessary help.

 With this right from an earlier age, till today I have my observation for son & daughter in the life of the family, we know that while expressing the views I am fully aware that they are rule & rules for which some are to be observed in words & some are to be in spirit. In this line, my answer also to be viewed in this line.

With this during my earlier years, I have observed the social sentiments & outlook of different family & subsequent when the life problem comes to me I asked in my prayer that God to grace with only daughters.

 With the grace of God I am lucky enough to have my first child as my daughter & after the interval of more than 8 years I have lucky to another child as my daughter & with the passage of time just as the other parents my elder daughter got married & another daughter has decided to remain with parents to take care in the life as she is to consider as a part of destiny & also God ‘ will .

She is presently taking loving care of me in my advanced age.Their I believe God’s will is always supreme.